Jumaat, Februari 06, 2009

BILA LELAKI MENJADI DAYUS ?

Al-hadith :


ثلاثةٌ قد حَرّمَ اللهُ - تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَى - عليهم الجنةَ : مُدْمِنُ الخمر ، والعاقّ ، والدّيّوثُ الذي

يُقِرُّ في أَهْلِهِ الخُبْثَ . رواه أحمد والنسائي .


Ertinya : "Tiga yang telah Allah haramkan baginya Syurga : orang yang ketagih arak, si penderhaka kepada ibu bapa dan Si Dayus yang membiarkan maksiat dilakukan oleh ahli keluarganya" ( Riwayat Ahmad )


Secara mudahnya cuba kita lihat betapa ramainya lelaki akan menjadi DAYUS apabila :-


1) Membiarkan kecantikan aurat, bentuk tubuh isterinya dinikmati oleh lelaki lain sepanjang waktu pejabat (jika bekerja) atau di luar rumah.


2) Membiarkan isterinya balik lewat dari kerja yang tidak diketahui bersama dengan lelaki apa dan siapa, serta apa yang dibuatnya di pejabat dan siapa yang menghantar.


3) Membiarkan aurat isterinya dan anak perempuannya dewasanya terlihat (terselak kain) semasa menaiki motor atau apa jua kenderaan sepanjang yang menyebabkan aurat terlihat.


4) Membiarkan anak perempuannya ber'dating' dengan tunangnya atau teman lelaki bukan mahramnya.


5) Membiarkan anak perempuan berdua-duaan dengan pasangannya di rumah kononnya ibu bapa 'spoting' yang memahami.


6) Menyuruh, mengarahkan dan berbangga dengan anak perempuan dan isteri memakai pakaian yang seksi di luar rumah.


7) Membiarkan anak perempuannya memasuki akademi fantasia, mentor, gang starz dan lain-lain yang sepertinya sehingga mempamerkan kecantikan kepada jutaan manusia bukan mahram.


8) Membiarkan isterinya atau anaknya menjadi pelakon dan berpelukan dengan lelaki lain, kononnya atas dasar seni dan lakonan semata-mata. Adakah semasa berlakon nafsu seorang lelaki di hilangkan?. Tidak sekali-sekali.


9) Membiarkan isteri kerja dan keluar rumah tanpa menutup aurat dengan sempurna.


10) Membiarkan isteri disentuh anggota tubuhnya oleh lelaki lain tanpa sebab yang diiktiraf oleh Islam seperti menyelamatkannya dari lemas dan yang sepertinya.


11) Membiarkan isterinya bersalin dengan dibidani oleh doktor lelaki tanpa terdesak dan keperluan yang tiada pilihan.


12) Membawa isteri dan anak perempuan untuk dirawati oleh doktor lelaki sedangkan wujudnya klinik dan hospital yang mempunyai doktor wanita.


13) Membiarkan isteri pergi kerja menumpang dengan teman lelaki sepejabat tanpa sebarang cemburu.


14) Membiarkan isteri kerap berdua-duan dengan pemandu kereta lelaki tanpa sebarang pemerhatian.


Terlalu banyak lagi jika ingin saya coretkan di sini. Kedayusan ini hanya akan sabit kepada lelaki jika semua maksiat yang dilakukan oleh isteri atau anaknya secara terbuka dan diketahui olehnya, adapun jika berlaku secara sulit, suami tidaklah bertanggungjawab dan tidak sabit 'dayus' kepad dirinya.


Mungkin kita akan berkata dalam hati :-

" Jika demikian, ramainya lelaki dayus di kelilingku"

Lebih penting adalah kita melihat, adakah kita sendiri tergolong dalam salah satu yang disebut tadi.


Awas wahai lelaki beriman..jangan kita termasuk dalam golongan yang berdosa besar ini.


Wahai para isteri dan anak-anak perempuan, jika anda sayangkan suami dan bapa anda, janganlah anda memasukkan mereka dalam kategori DAYUS yang tiada ruang untuk ke syurga Allah SWT.


Sayangilah dirimu dan keluargamu. Jagalah dirimu dan keluargamu dari api neraka.


Akhirnya, wahai para suami dan ayah, pertahankan agama isteri dan keluargamu walau terpaksa bermatian kerananya.


Nabi SAW bersabda :

من قتل دون أهله فهو شهيد

Ertinya : "Barangsiapa yang mati dibunuh kerana mempertahankan ahli keluarganya, maka ia adalah mati syahid" ( Riwayat Ahmad , Sohih menurut Syeikh Syuaib Arnout)


Sekian


Zaharuddin Abd Rahman

http://www.zaharuddin.net/


p/s : Diizinkan pembaca menyebarkan tulisan ini sejauh mana yang mungkin demi manfaat para lelaki yang berhasrat menjadi penghuni Syurga.


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